Many of us fondly remember the lessons from that fictional coach who championed positivity and teamwork. His take on a common mantra in the disability community—presume competence—resonates deeply.

One of my favorite scenes from Ted Lasso is when he plays darts against a rival, highlighting the value of curiosity over judgment. Ted shares a story about how people often underestimate him based on assumptions about his capabilities, only to be surprised by his success. He quotes Walt Whitman’s phrase: “Be curious, not judgmental.” This quote underscores how quick judgments can hinder our understanding of others, leading to missed opportunities for connection and growth. Ted’s calm confidence and insight help him win the game, both literally and metaphorically.

What I love about this scene is its reminder that we all deserve the chance to be truly known. We should not be judged by assumptions.

This is particularly relevant when interacting with individuals with intellectual disabilities. Society often views them through a different lens, seeing them as inherently different. Presuming competence means adopting a mindset of curiosity rather than judgment about their capabilities, interests, emotions, and goals.

As educators, service providers, administrators, or peers, this fall, I encourage you to start the year with a new goal. Approach each student with respect and openness. Say, “I won’t make assumptions based on your diagnosis, appearance, or my past experiences. Instead, I’ll be curious and learn about the unique individual you are.”

Presume competence. Be curious, not judgmental.

Ted Lasso said it in his own way—with darts and swagger. We can say it with the same spirit: with empathy and understanding. Let’s make it a great school year. 🎯